Honestly, the "consistency of milk" thing has never worked for me.
Probably because I don't drink milk
The way I tell if my paint is thinned enough, is to do the "swirl" test.
Picture a wine taster, swirling the wine in a glass. Except I mix my paint in a palette.
When you mix and thin your paint, swirl it gently (either in the palette or a glass jar).
See how quickly the paint runs down the side of the palette / jar.
If it disappears very quickly, less than one second, then it is too thin.
If it sticks on the side of the jar for more than 3 seconds, it is too thick. (duh)
What I aim for, is the bulk of the 'swirled' paint to run down in 1.5-2 seconds; with the colour completely disappearing after another 2 seconds.
Of course, this is just my way of estimating the mixing ratio.
Several other factors come into play.
The actual shade of colour, spraying pressure, nozzle size etc.
One final point though, I've never known thin paint to cause blotches.

It is difficult to tell from the pics if the uneven colouration is due to bad coverage or the previous coat is being blown off.
The difficult part about airbrushing is that you are balancing around 6 variables.
Thinning ratio + air pressure + distance + panning speed + throttle + nozzle diameter.
And that's not counting ambient air temperature and humidity.

Change one variable, and you have to compensate with the others.
Have fun
p.s. help us to help you :
take clearer pics, use a more descriptive thread title.